Who I see… or don’t see

Are you interested in booking me, but are worried about whether I would see you? This page will cover most of the basics, but if you’re unsure - you can aways reach out.

Do you have any restrictions on who your clients are?

The short answer is, no - although there are some clients that I don’t see. Here’s a short list below:

  • I won’t see you if you don’t meet my screening criteria, if you attend the booking with a contagious illness or don’t pass a ‘health check’.

  • I don’t see clients who send explicit messages, constantly message me or demand my time for free outside of bookings.

  • No breaking of my boundaries. 

  • No ‘smothering’ or ‘overwhelming’ me with physical touch as soon as I arrive.

  • A big turn-off is poor personal hygiene. 

  • Don’t try to dominate me.

  • I may say no to possible clients who ‘know me’ on a close, personal level outside the context of sex work (this one is nuanced, so read my longer answer below).

  • I won’t see couples where there might be jealousy issues (this one is also nuanced, so read my longer answer below).

Do you see personal friends or acquaintances?

Generally, I prefer not to see personal friends or acquaintances in my professional capacity as a sex worker. However, there are exceptions depending on what capacity we know each other, and from where. If our connection is solely online or within the sex work industry, I'm absolutely open to it. 

I’ve often encountered situations where past university lecturers, male photographers, allied health professionals, partners of friends in monogamous relationships have expressed interest in seeing me as a sex worker. I must emphasise that this makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and I do refuse service in these situations. 

Do you see couples?

Yes, I do see couples, and I must say, some of my most memorable experiences have been with them. Being bisexual and naturally voyeuristic, I truly appreciate the energy couples bring. However, the success of our session depends heavily on the couple's dynamic. Open communication and mutual consent between everyone is so important. There have been instances in some couples bookings where I sensed one person was uncomfortable or jealous, and this made me feel anxious. It's essential to me that everyone involved is genuinely comfortable and excited about the experience. As a rule of thumb, in hetero couple bookings - I always prioritise the womans’ feelings and well-being and will try to make her feel as comfortable and sexy as possible.

If you're new to this and feel that jealousy might be a concern, I'd recommend booking an individual session with me first or consider a foursome scenario with one of my friends to ensure nobody feels like a ‘third wheel’. There are also some providers that are great at helping couples work through jealousy issues - so perhaps I’m not the best provider for you. For more insights and stories from my couple encounters, you can visit the 'Couples' page on my website.

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Do you only see men?

I see anybody, gender isn’t an issue. Whether you’re a man, woman, non-binary person, trans (with or without surgery), know that you are welcome and respected in this space. As a queer person myself, I genuinely cherish seeing other queers. For more information on queer bookings and intimacy - you can visit the ‘Queer Intimacy’ page on my website.

  • No, I don't see two straight, cis men at once. If you're interested in a group experience, I love foursome scenarios (two men and two women) with one of my trusted friends. This approach allows for a more controlled, safer and enjoyable experience.

  • Absolutely, I'm open to party bookings and genuinely enjoy them. Often partying with clients is the only partying I ever do, haha!

  • Absolutely, I do see people with disabilities. As a profoundly Deaf person, I’m disabled myself, so I have firsthand experience and understanding of intimacy with people who have physical disabilities or neurodivergence. I've also completed the official 'Professional Disability Awareness Training' through Touching Base, an organisation that connects people with disabilities with sex workers who are trained to provide inclusive services. I am also a registered provider, volunteer and member of the Touching Base community. To learn more about my experience and approach, please visit the 'Accessible Intimacy' page on my website.