Queer Intimacy

As a bisexual goddess, I’ve had many queer experiences, both in my personal life and professionally.

This image features the beautiful Andi, who is also queer! We provide ‘duo’ services and have great chemistry together. Let me know when you make a booking if you would like Andi to join us!

My genuine attraction to all bodies is more than just a preference - I enjoy celebrating diverse beauty and uniqueness. This appreciation extends to my work, where I love connecting with fellow queers and creating memorable experiences together.

I've had the privilege of connecting intimately with people across the gender spectrum, including intersex and trans people, both with or without gender affirming surgeries and/or HRT. It's rare for me to encounter a combination of gender expression and genitals that I haven't encountered before.

I understand that taking the step to see a sex worker for the first time can be nerve-wracking, especially for LGBT+ people who may also be navigating the complexities of their identity. Whether it's guiding women through their first lesbian encounter or exploring pleasure with someone gender non-conforming, I approach each session with empathy and a deep understanding of the vulnerability that comes with intimacy.

I put together this page because I recognise that there's a lack of information and resources tailored to the experiences of queer folk seeking intimate services. I hope to fill this gap by offering insights, guidance, and support to help you feel confident in your decision to explore intimacy with me.

Throw away the script…

Sex in mainstream culture often comes with a set of expectations that are rooted in cisgendered, heteronormative perspectives. However, intimacy and pleasure shouldn’t be a ‘one-size-fits-all’ approach. Whether you're exploring your sexuality for the first time, or simply seeking a connection with another queer, I'm here to listen, understand, and collaborate with you to design a session that feels right for you.

Whether we're setting up an independent booking or planning a session at Bliss, I've laid out the session in steps to guide you through what to expect. The structure of my bookings don’t differ too much between cis-het clients and queers, but I wanted to include a more specific guide to ease your nerves.

  • When booking a Girlfriend Experience with me, the session begins with your arrival at the hotel you've chosen for our session. We’ll then meet discreetly outside or in the lobby, depending on the venue, to ensure privacy and discretion. After guiding me to our room, we'll handle the payment, in cash as agreed upon.

    I usually start with a relaxed chat and perhaps a cup of tea (or drink for you!), where we can get cozy and comfortable with each other. During this time, I'll ask about how you like to experience pleasure, exploring what feels affirming and pleasurable for your body. This is particularly important for trans or gender nonconforming clients, as I want to avoid areas or activities that might make you feel dysphoric while having sex.

    If you have a vulva, I’ll usually ask if you enjoy internal and/or external stimulation, have a preference for vibrators and other toys, or have specific ways you love to reach orgasm. I’ll also talk about what I like, and what my boundaries are to make you feel more comfortable.

    We might also want to chat about whether you’ve had an experience with a sex worker before. We’ll discuss what your expectations are for the session, and if you have any fears or worries.

    Following this, I'll conduct a quick health check. After this, I'll guide you to take a shower. Typically, the chatting and showering part of the booking with a first-timer takes around 20 minutes. It's advisable to book more than an hour, especially for first-timers, to ensure a comfortable pace. 

    After the shower, we’ll then get to the physical part of the service. I explain more about different sexual acts we can do in my ‘sex dictionary’ so that you have an idea of what to ask for, and what’s off the table. 

    Our session will conclude with a cuddle and conversation, ensuring you feel affirmed and respected. While this might be a new or different experience for you, rest assured, our time together is much like any first-time booking for me – a beautiful exploration of connection, pleasure, and mutual respect.

  • At Bliss, your experience will look slightly different than booking me independently. If you've pre-booked, which I highly recommend, the Bliss receptionist will warmly greet you upon arrival. After settling the room fee with them, I'll personally welcome you and guide you to our private room. Here, we'll begin with a health check and then I'll introduce you to the shower and leave the room. This part isn’t included in your session time, which gives you a moment to relax and prepare. 

    When I return, the session time will begin, starting with cuddling and chats. This is where I'll encourage open conversation about your experiences with pleasure, discussing preferences for both external and internal stimulation, preferred toys, and the ways you most enjoy reaching climax. I'll also check in on what feels affirming and comfortable for you and your body. If this is your first queer experience, we can address any expectations, concerns, or worries you may have about the session.

    I’ll then ask you to lay face down so that you can enjoy a sensual erotic massage, incorporating body slides and skin-to-skin contact. Once the massage is complete, we'll transition to the next phase, whether that's exploring additional services or concluding with a happy ending. To be explicit, for people with penises, that includes a hand job. And for people with vulvas, that includes external stimulation and rubbing with fingers and/or a sex toy. Any internal pleasure, whether it’s anal or vaginal is classified as an additional service at Bliss, and this will incur a fee starting from $150. I also offer other ‘extras’ at Bliss, like kissing or penetrative sex. This is obviously optional, and you can let me know at any point if you’d like to add on any ‘extra’. 

    To ensure a relaxed and unhurried experience, I recommend booking 90 minutes to 2 hours. For those interested, Bliss offers a luxurious bubble bath option for extended bookings exceeding 90 minutes.

“As a lesbian transgender woman, I was worried about finding someone who was willing to massage me. Besides being absolutely stunning, Katia was able to make me feel so comfortable and relaxed within moments of meeting her. She listened to my thoughts and concerns. She even asked about boundaries, which is always a green flag for me. During the massage she hit all the right spots, and actually made me feel sexy which is hard for me. By the end of the very intimate session, I felt amazing and felt like we could just keep chatting like old friends. Thank you Katia for a great evening. I hope I can come back soon!”

Allie

Andi and Katia are posing on the floor, interacting with one another in a sensual way. They are both wearing sparkly bikinis and the lighting is pink.

“I saw Katia last night and she was amazing right from introduction. Was so friendly and made things so comfortable through her friendly demeanour. Definitely knows her way around a woman. Highly recommend Katia.”

Amy