What I like

Reaching this page shows you're interested in what I enjoy, and that's a big green flag. By paying attention to what pleases me, we can make our time together even more fun and sexy.

A little bit about what I like;

Above all, what truly excites and fulfils me during our time together is the mutual enjoyment and satisfaction we both experience. It's also always exciting when you bring something special to our session – whether it's a shared interest, a particular fantasy, or a unique experience you've been longing for. Invite me into your world!

What do you find most pleasurable in sex?

In terms of physical, pleasurable or sexual acts - I can’t achieve orgasm with only penetration. So that explains why I love my clit touched - and why I don’t really enjoy fingering. This doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy penetration at all - just because I can’t achieve an orgasm this way doesn’t mean it’s not pleasurable! I actually love orgasms where I’m on ‘top’ and my clit is being stimulated at the same time, either with a toy or fingers. I also find immense pleasure in witnessing your pleasure, which in turn heightens my own pleasure and connection with you. 

Are you kinky?

Absolutely! I find immense pleasure in body worship, dominating those with submissive tendencies, pegging, and indulging in the sensuality of sensory deprivation and foot play. 

While I thoroughly enjoy kink, it's important to note that I don't exclusively rely on it for personal gratification. I am equally content and passionate about providing a heartfelt Girlfriend Experience (GFE). My primary goal is to create a genuine connection and bring your fantasies to life, whether they lean towards the kinky side or the more vanilla.

Do you have a ‘type’?

I genuinely welcome clients from all ages, genders, identities and backgrounds. What truly matters to me is the mutual respect, kindness, and understanding we share during our time together. Whether you're a cute nerd, a corporate, a creative, or a tradie, I'm here to connect and create memorable experiences with you. 

Katia Schwartz is a deaf lingerie model and sex worker based in Sydney, Australia. She is posing against a leopard print wall, wearing black lingerie. She has red hair, pale skin and is wearing red lipstick.

What do you find attractive in a person?

Physical appearance or occupation aren't what determines ‘attractiveness’ to me. What really gets me excited are clients who approach our time together with generosity, good hygiene, and a genuine respect for my boundaries. I also love deep connections and engaging conversations that allow us to get to know each other beyond the surface. I have a soft spot for cuddles, especially when they're genuine and heartfelt. Delicious perfume or cologne is irresistible to me – there's something incredibly seductive about a partner who smells good. Perhaps we can attribute that to my deafness as I love seeking pleasure in my other senses.

  • My biggest turn-off is a client smothering me with physical touch and pushing for sex as soon as I’ve walked into the room. We’re not in a rom-com movie where we burst open the door and passionately engage in sex immediately. This is real-life, and jumping straight to sexual touch before having any conversation or discussion of boundaries demonstrates an extreme disregard for consent.

  • I enjoy a ‘warm up’ to sex, building up the sexual tension by light touch, conversation, flirting and expressing our fantasies. I’m not a walking ‘sex doll’ that’s constantly down to fuck you. I’m a human being, and just because our session is transactional doesn’t negate consent or your responsibility to ensure I feel safe.

  • I always prefer to be touched with gentleness and reverence. I do not appreciate rough handling, hickeys, slapping my ass, or the pulling and twisting of my nipples and breasts. Remember, treating me with the respect and tenderness befitting of a goddess is what I expect from my clients.

  • I am naturally dominant, so I do not entertain being submissive in bookings. Please refrain from making demands asking me to "work for it" or trying to exert control during our session. This space is shared, but ultimately, it's mine, and you are a guest within it.

  • Personal hygiene is also crucial to me. I have a heightened sense of smell due to my deafness, so unpleasant odours like body odour or bad breath can be particularly distracting and off-putting. If this arises, I may kindly request that you freshen up before we continue our time together.

Does anything turn you off?

While I am open to diverse sensual experiences, I do have a few firm boundaries and preferences. I pride myself on being vocal and transparent about my preferences. While I may come across as assertive in expressing what I don't enjoy, it's because I believe in creating a mutually satisfying experience. It's essential to me that our encounter is enjoyable and authentic. If you want a ‘performance’ - I’m not the provider for you.

Time-wasters aren’t welcome here

I strongly dislike time-wasters or those who attempt to push my boundaries after I've clearly communicated them. If I express a limit or say "no" to a particular request, it's essential to respect that boundary; otherwise, I will terminate our booking.

Katia Schwartz has red hair, pale skin and tattoos. She is wearing a leopard print lingerie set and is posing seductively against a grey backdrop.

Love Languages.

Love Languages.

What is your love language?

Love languages refer to the ways people can express and receive love. These languages can encompass acts of service, words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, and receiving gifts. My primary love language in terms of giving is acts of service. I love providing a tailored and impeccable experience for my clients, giving to you generously and authentically. I also value words of affirmation, offering genuine and heartfelt compliments and reassurances to make you feel appreciated and desired.

On the receiving end, I cherish gifts and words of affirmation from my clients. These gestures not only make me feel valued but also deepen the connection and mutual respect between us. 

What gifts do you like?
Gift-giving is one of my love languages, and when you spoil me, I'm eager to reciprocate. While it's never expected, the thoughtfulness behind a gift always touches my heart. However, because gift giving is one of my love languages - an unthoughtful or selfish gift, or perhaps something that I’m unable to use may upset me. Examples of this have been items that require me to ‘hear’ (like a music box) or items that are designed purely to ‘remind’ me of the client (like a t-shirt with their name on it). What this tells me about the client, is that they don’t actually care about me or what I might like. These gifts are not really for me - they are selfish and don’t display thoughtfulness. It’s also wasteful, and not good for our environment.

With that said, I don’t want clients (or anyone) to feel nervous about giving me a gift - or feeling like they even have to at all. If you do decide to show affection to me by gifting, your thoughtfulness and attention to what I may enjoy will never go unnoticed! Some of the most beautiful gifts I have ever received have honestly just been a simple, heartfelt card.

In terms of what I do like - I’m actually very easy to buy for! While I do have a penchant for designer items, I’m also equally impressed by smaller gifts that don’t cost much at all. Have a look at the ‘tips’ page on my website for a list of ideas.