Thank you for the love…

Gift-giving is one of my love languages, and when you spoil me, I'm eager to reciprocate. While it's never expected, the thoughtfulness behind a gift always touches my heart.

I’m often asked how clients, followers, and allies can support me and the work I do. While I’m not usually one to ask for specific things, I truly appreciate the thoughtfulness behind people wanting to treat me. To make it easier for anyone who’d like to gift me something, I’ve put together a small wishlist and gift-giving guide.

That said, I want to emphasise that no one—clients or otherwise—should feel pressured or nervous about giving a gift. It’s absolutely not an expectation! If you do choose to show your affection through gifting, your thoughtfulness and attention to what I might enjoy mean the world to me. While I do have expensive and specific taste, some of the most meaningful gifts I’ve ever received have been as simple as a heartfelt card.

A cropped photo of Katia Schwartz, wearing pasties and blush lingerie. You can see her black tattoos on her pale skin.

A quick snapshot of my tastes

  • Lingerie: Agent Provocateur in sizes 10DD or 12D, S/M bottoms (please NO Honey Birdette… I used to work there and it was awful!)

  • Sex Toys: Iroha (anything external and vibrator-y)

  • Shoes: Louboutin size 37.5

  • Flowers: Red roses or white orchids

  • Chocolate: Salted caramel milk chocolate from Koko Black or anything milk from Lindt!

  • Drinks: Traditional Earl Grey or smoky black tea (I don’t drink alcohol!)

  • Perfume: La Colle Noire by Christian Dior or classic rose-inspired scents

  • Skincare: Dermalogica or La Mer

  • Designer Brands: Yves St Laurent, Chanel, Louboutin, Gucci

  • Jewellery: Solid yellow gold only (I’m allergic to most metals…I’m biologically fancy)

  • Gemstones: Diamonds (white, pink, black), pearls, opals, rubies

  • Books: Anything sex worker biography or history or astrology/tarot based. I also love cookbooks (vegetarian)

  • I am a size 10 (or a small/medium) in clothing.

  • I usually wear a 10D or 10DD in bra sizes (all brands are different - I usually wear a 10DD in Agent Provocateur). I’m a size 10 or small/medium (size 3) in underwear.

  • I am a size 37.5 or size 7 in shoes (My louboutin size is 37.5).

  • Jewellery | Solid (yellow) gold only
    Clothing | Black
    Lingerie | Black, blush or red
    Flowers | Red roses and white orchids

Katia Schwartz has red hair, pale skin and tattoos. She is holding a bed-sheet up to her chest. The lighting is soft and warm.

Love Languages.

Love Languages.

What is your love language?

Love languages refer to the ways people can express and receive love. These languages can encompass acts of service, words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, and receiving gifts. My primary love language in terms of giving is acts of service. I love providing a tailored and impeccable experience for my clients, giving to you generously and authentically. I also value words of affirmation, offering genuine and heartfelt compliments and reassurances to make you feel appreciated and desired.

On the receiving end, I cherish gifts and words of affirmation from my clients. These gestures not only make me feel valued but also deepen the connection and mutual respect between us.